Watching a close family member being hit by a car while crossing the road is a moment that can never be forgotten. The collision left life changing injuries and an emotional impact that would last long afterwards.

“It changed my perspective on life completely.”

In the aftermath, sleep became difficult, eating felt impossible, and there was a persistent feeling that somehow the collision had been their fault.

The guilt remained.

Support from Aftermath provided what was described as “a safe space to talk and speak about anything I felt I needed to get off my chest.”

It became possible to talk openly about everything that had been carried since the collision and the overwhelming feelings that followed.

Through those conversations, a different perspective began to emerge.

The guilt that had felt so overwhelming gradually started to lift. Looking back now, the biggest difference is knowing that it was not their fault and no longer carrying that burden of self-blame.

A road collision can leave more than physical injuries. Those who witness it can also be left carrying guilt, self-blame and emotional pain that others may never see.

The message to anyone affected by a serious or fatal road collision is simple:

“You cannot change what has already happened and IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.”

Anonymous | Witness